Sis Janet and Bro Rasaq met at a spiritual conference and he felt ‘led’ to propose to her based on ‘what the spirit told him’. There was no history of friendship or a quest to seek to understand each other.

Now they have been married for 4years and constantly fight...

Are you in a marriage where you are constantly being compared to some other person somewhere or you are feeling so used and worn-out that it almost feels like you are only there because of your children?

Is your esteem so messed up that you look like a shadow of the chick he did everything...

Many of the issues we deal with in marriages are foundational problems that could have been properly handled if we had been adequately informed and prepared before delving into marriage.

That not withstanding, God is the restorer of faulty foundations and I am sure He often deploys therapy...

He had no job so was quite humble and willing to do everything  including running errands, but the moment he got his dream job, he wouldn’t even lift a finger anymore to assist, and he considers her no longer suitable for him.

 She had always desired the celebrated musician...

Thanks so much for reading this from me. I never take for granted the fact that you read from me. God bless all of you and may your home enjoy bliss. One of my readers asked an important question yesterday on how to handle a situation, where you have become a boss by your superior financial...

What does it feel like to be married to a man whose destination you are not sure of, but you just have to follow because he is not only your husband but also a boss? What does it feel like to be married to a woman who is your boss because she calls the shots and you have learnt to dance to her...

I have received numerous responses to the question I asked yesterday and many couples are beginning to see that their reason for getting married is not strong enough to last a life time. I am however glad that many are learning to communicate and make things right.

I am certain that many...

People get married for several reasons and over time they realize their reasons are not strong enough to sustain their marriage. For example, some will tell you they married their spouse because they have always desired to have someone who can take care of their homes. The truth however is, if...

Based on several questions I have been getting since I started how to maximize your life I need to quickly address a few relationship matters

Marriage is a bed of roses! Yes. Because roses have thorns too and for you to lay on your bed comfortably, you need to take off the thorns.

Many people say...

I have taken you through 3 of the 4 stages you must navigate in order to maximize your life. Truth is many of the things you attribute your problems to are far from your problems.

The biggest problem you have is being true to yourself and living out your truth without apologies. In your quest to...

It was the harvest festival on a Sunday and everyone was asked to come in their traditional attire and my friend bro. Egunjobi James Oluwaseun showed up in this Egungun attire.

Nobody knew he was the one;

A group saw this as a desecration of the house because a masquerade dared to come into the...