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IN LOVE WITH A TANTIS ROMEO

couples family engineering romeo Jan 09, 2022

He had no job so was quite humble and willing to do everything  including running errands, but the moment he got his dream job, he wouldn’t even lift a finger anymore to assist, and he considers her no longer suitable for him.

 

 She had always desired the celebrated musician but because she didn't have access to him, she chose to date his guitarist who loved her so much and felt she was real until she gained access to the main man and it was all over for the poor guitarist.

 

He/she doesn’t have legal papers but chose someone with papers hoping to bolt away once that desire is fulfilled.

 

This is based on a need that hasn’t been met such that when it is met, one party becomes emotionally detached from the other. One party uses the other to achieve an ulterior motive that is not verbalized. This relationship tends towards abuse once vulnerable person gains strength.

 

How many times have you seen people marry a victim as a means to an end i.e to access her father’s wealth or so that she could get her/his legal status? How many times have you felt used and dumped when you remember who she/he used to be and how you slaved together to make things work but now he/she threatens you? 

 

This is very prevalent right now because the motive isn’t for love but for it to serve as a springboard to where he/she wants to go. We don’t know the damage we do to ourselves when we suffer together and one party is dumped in favour of someone else who wouldn’t have considered them had he/she met them when the dumped person chose to take a risk on them.

 

It is a period of marital restoration and I honestly believe we need a lot of reconciliation. How real is your happiness at the moment and whose dreams, dignity, honour and identity were sacrificed for you to get to where you are this moment?

 

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To be continued

 

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