DEALING WITH A TANTIS ROMEO SPOUSE

Are you in a marriage where you are constantly being compared to some other person somewhere or you are feeling so used and worn-out that it almost feels like you are only there because of your children?

Is your esteem so messed up that you look like a shadow of the chick he did everything to chase or the guy that was everything she ever wanted? Have you found yourself competing with his/her professional colleague so much, it now seems you are now forcing yourself on him/her?

Does it look like you are no longer presentable and good for the occasion? Then:

-        Get an identity of yourself and develop a sense of self worth(you can totally deal with this with www.iampraisefowowe.com/aliens)

-        Do a reality check by sitting with your spouse and communicating your concerns. Don’t be afraid to do this because a closed mouth could mean that you are comfortable with what is happening.

-        Refuse to be used by learning detachment because detachment might just be the right signal for him/her to know that there is much more to you than a tool or a thing that must be used as a buffer when he/she runs out of resources.

 This has been effective in getting the prodigals to return home in most cases, however you must know the right time to apply this.

-        Spend time developing what gives you pleasure and prove to yourself that you can achieve greatness. Take that professional course again; aspire for that next level and don’t even be afraid to start school afresh in case you dropped out initially. Always remember you only start dieing when you stop learning.

-        Spend time with values driven/godly friends as they have been proven to provide effective support structures for men/women in this situation.

-        Read books that can develop your self esteem and relationship skills because you owe yourself personal development.

Always remember that there's nothing you cannot do and that you are unique in your own rights. Your life shouldn’t stop because your spouse has chosen to take a trip with another person.

 You have a choice either to accept defeat and keep feeling miserable or to pick it up as a signal to get back into the school of greatness and cultivate yourself once again into an indispensible spouse that no one can do without. The choice is yours and I know you have all it takes to turn things around.

To be continued

I honour you.

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